"Helga’s a blonde, like her mother and sister, with her hair in pigtails and a thick black unibrow. Every day she wears a pink dress, which matches her huge pink bow which alights her dainty head. Her room is full of frills and pink hearts and a happy doll very similar to Raggedy Ann. Just from these simple descriptors, one would assume that Helga would be a sweet as pie, all American girl. That’s her sister, Olga. Helga, on the other hand, is a true tomboy. Occasionally violent but a born leader, Helga makes herself known amongst the 4th graders to be the one kid you do NOT want to mess with. However, as her mild-mannered half-Japanese best friend Phoebe knows and understands well, there is a lot of tenderness in Helga. While being tough, she’s rarely mean for the sake of being mean. She doesn’t steal, she doesn’t cheat and doesn’t lie about anything except Arnold. […]
Helga is a well-crafted individual and shows just how NOT to judge a book by its cover. Just because someone is a girl, wears pink, or wears dresses doesn’t mean anything one way or the other and this back story is significant to how we consider Helga within feminism. Helga does not love Arnold because that’s what girls do; she loves him because he showed her kindness. She loves him obsessively because he continues to show her kindness even if she tortures him. However, due to the fact that she does not want to become the butt of anyone’s jokes, she maintains this iron-clad reputation of the tough leader and keeps her love hidden from everyone; that one moment of swooning at 3 years old was seen as weakness. This is a girl who makes her own decisions, does things on her own terms and refuses to conform to anyone’s expectations”. x
What to wear, and what to bring. I’m getting to the age where a lot of my friends are buying houses, moving places, or settling down. So, what is the etiquette to celebrating their big success? Where to start… I love giving quirky statement gifts. Things that are not just neat, but functional as well.
What to wear? I’ve been obsessed with finding a jumpsuit/coverall that would successfully make me look like something out of a Levi’s Vintage lookbook, and less like a kid playing in the snow. And those boots? I constantly have been searching for a pair of ultra feminine work boots, what better way then a pronounced heel? Put on a hat, and a leather clutch, cuff those pant legs and get gettin’.
- Alcohol, if they drink, is always a good start. I love bourbon and have found that Bulleit Rye is a versatile and well loved staple. Along with a simple but unique flask? Bingo.
- Plants. Granted, not everyone has a green thumb, which is why I usually go for something that’s a little less hassle like succulents. Maybe include the note card set maybe with a little crash course on watering, sunlight and care.
- Getting them an Apolis Market bag with their nearest or favorite city would be a fantastic gift. I bought myself the Philadelphia version the fall before last and use it constantly. I actually threw in some of my cookware to use in Mike’s kitchen tonight, along with a couple essential ingredients.
- Good Candle and shellfish matchbooks. I bought my sister a candle, and myself one and they are fantastic. We even burn them here at the shop.
- Finally, the Holy Grail of gifts, at least in my mind is a Kilim Pillow, or rug. A splurge, but if you love someone what’s money at the end of the day, ya know?
Now, go on, have some fun.
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